Although there is plenty advice available on the question of how to get your boyfriend back most of it really is not worth very much. Begging him to take you back really does not strike me as a good way of going about things.
Some people would advise that you use games and jealousy to win him back and although this might work sometimes is it really a good idea to form a relationship based on jealousy and games? Although you might be desperate enough to say you do not really care it is important to remember that a relationship like that is not going to last. The old problems are likely to resurface and then the relationship is simply going to end up the same way - over.
Without resorting to games, trickery or even love spells how about just apologizing for what you did wrong? Sounds simple doesn't it? Now, I'm not suggesting that the whole breakup was your fault, but more than likely you did one or two things wrong. It can't hurt to apologize for that.
Another benefit of acknowledging your mistakes is that it will give you a chance to make changes. That way if you and your guy do get back together you won't just repeat the same mistakes all over again and continue to cause each other pain.
That one piece of advice on getting your boyfriend back is good even if the two of you fail to reunite. At least you will know what things not to do in your next relationship. Either way, you win if you take the time to figure out your mistakes and make changes.
When you make contact for the purpose of giving your apology keep it short and sweet. Let him know that you understand your mistakes and that you are genuinely sorry for any pain that you caused him.
Do not resort to crying and begging and do not go into it with grand expectations of him taking you back right on the spot. It could be that he won't. He may need time to mull it all over and make up his mind about whether or not he wants to try again even with the new and more mature version of you.
If he doesn't want an immediate reconciliation then let him have the time and space he needs. Do not hound him while he takes the time to make up his mind. If you keep at him the chances are good that you will only push him further away and the situation will be irrevocably worsened.
During this period, don't sit by the phone and wait for his call. Live your life. Do something to make you feel really good about yourself, and making yourself look really hot can't hurt either. Spend time with friends. Do not just sit around and worry, that will make time seem to go much more slowly.
If you follow this advice on getting your boyfriend back you will stand a much better chance of being successful than if you choose to follow the advice that suggests you play games and try to make him jealous. It's up to you, good luck.
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